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Old 08-28-2016, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by defaria
In a word - NO. Because we also live in a country where you can't stop me from asking questions. It's not badgering people - it's asking a question. Questions seem to be hard for you to answer but that's your problem - not mine. If you don't want to respond then simply don't respond. It's as simple as that. I will stop when I get a reasonable answer, and not before.
LOL.You are certainly free to continue to make an a#! of yourself.
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Old 08-28-2016, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted by midnight01
I'm not trying to start a flame war. Just saying sometimes its easier to just be polite then it is to be rude. You will be facing a lot of things in life not just this scenario and how you handle it is the judge of your true character.
But is someone else's true character shining through when they ask a complete stranger a question that is a bit personal, private and really none of their business when it comes right down to it? Really, if they are going to ask you how much you paid for it they may as well ask if you paid cash or if you financed it, and if so how much were the payments. If you paid cash would they be rude by asking if you saved up the money or inherited it. Where is the line crossed? The entire inquisition crosses the line as far as I am concerned once a stranger asks me how much my car costs.
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Old 08-28-2016, 09:26 PM
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I've asked what people paid for a Vette and other cars when I'm interested and I've had some ask me what I paid for mine. If I know the individual, I have no problem sharing that information. Most of the time they are quite surprised at how low the price is expecting a much higher price. The price of your car is something you brag about when you got a good deal so I'm a little surprised at the responses here, but I do understand that with anything financial, someone may want to keep it confidential.
As for did I pay cash or a loan, they don't ask and if they did it's none of their business.
Someone brought up what did you pay for your house. Well, uh, if you live in North Carolina you can tell them or they can go to the county records and ask them, it's a matter of public record along with the closing date and current taxes. Actually, I think it's available on line.
As for income, I agree, that's considered confidential.
Old 08-28-2016, 09:46 PM
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Originally Posted by roadbike56
I've asked what people paid for a Vette and other cars when I'm interested and I've had some ask me what I paid for mine. If I know the individual, I have no problem sharing that information. Most of the time they are quite surprised at how low the price is expecting a much higher price. The price of your car is something you brag about when you got a good deal so I'm a little surprised at the responses here, but I do understand that with anything financial, someone may want to keep it confidential.
As for did I pay cash or a loan, they don't ask and if they did it's none of their business.
Someone brought up what did you pay for your house. Well, uh, if you live in North Carolina you can tell them or they can go to the county records and ask them, it's a matter of public record along with the closing date and current taxes. Actually, I think it's available on line.
As for income, I agree, that's considered confidential.
So, it appears that there is a confidentiality line drawn someplace between most people's largest purchase in life and their second largest purchase?
Old 08-28-2016, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by hanks10GS
So, it appears that there is a confidentiality line drawn someplace between most people's largest purchase in life and their second largest purchase?
Yup. Makes perfect sense, right?

I just looked on Zillow and it says what we paid for our house nearly 20 years ago. Lots of ways to get that info, but what you paid for a car is "personal" or "confidential" info.

Kinda like people that blur their license plate when they post a pic when they drive around having no clue who is looking at it.
Old 08-28-2016, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by hanks10GS
So, it appears that there is a confidentiality line drawn someplace between most people's largest purchase in life and their second largest purchase?
There is such a line, because there is a difference between personal property and real estate. The former is confidential, and the latter is publicly available.

eta: Steve beat me to it.

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Old 08-28-2016, 10:01 PM
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I haven't bothered reading all the responses but who cares if someone knows what YOU paid for the car. Big deal. Unless I'm negotiating a sale of something (where knowing what I paid can be used as leverage) who cares...oooh I paid XXX amount.
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Old 08-28-2016, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted by RedC7AZ
LOL.You are certainly free to continue to make an a#! of yourself.
And you a dick of yourself.
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Originally Posted by midnight01
between lying about how much someone paid for their car to the plain rude responses it makes me shake my head.
Who said anything about lying? Not I.
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Originally Posted by Gymbow
Hey, what's your Social Security number? And while you're at it, how about giving me your Medicare and Credit Card numbers? No? Then let me guess - "It's none of my business" ...

PS: I paid Billions of MicroDollars for mine.
No it has nothing to do with that. Given my social security number you can impersonate me and rip me off. You can't if I tell you how much I paid for my vette. Given you my Medicare or Credit Card numbers you could rip me off. You can't if I tell you how much I paid for my vette. To totally, absolutely opposite concepts. Not even in the ballpark. Stupid comparison. Try again!
Old 08-28-2016, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Nosferatu
I haven't bothered reading all the responses but who cares if someone knows what YOU paid for the car. Big deal. Unless I'm negotiating a sale of something (where knowing what I paid can be used as leverage) who cares...oooh I paid XXX amount.
It doesn't matter, and I could give a crap what somebody paid for their car. If they got a great deal, good for them. If they didn't, they have the car so it still doesn't matter. As its been pointed out it's pretty easy to get an idea what a new car costs. Easy enough that if someone is curious why don't they just bite their tongue and pull out their phone and do a search rather than ask a complete stranger what THEY paid? I think that it demonstrates bad manners to ask.
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Originally Posted by defaria
Who said anything about lying? Not I.
You didn't. He was probably referring to this early reply:

Originally Posted by vbdenny
Looking fine, touching not. I never touch or even lean on someone else's car unless they
Say it's okay or it's a POS unit. I always lie when asked how much I paid. Add another $10k on and keep them for getting any ideas.
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Originally Posted by hanks10GS
It doesn't matter, and I could give a crap what somebody paid for their car. If they got a great deal, good for them. If they didn't, they have the car so it still doesn't matter. As its been pointed out it's pretty easy to get an idea what a new car costs. Easy enough that if someone is curious why don't they just bite their tongue and pull out their phone and do a search rather than ask a complete stranger what THEY paid? I think that it demonstrates bad manners to ask.
...because maybe they saw your car, went wow that's cool, I wonder how much that costs, let me just ask the owner what they paid

...or maybe thety saw your car, went wow that's cool, I don't know how to approach them or what to say to start the conversation, let me just ask the owner what they paid

Seriously...big deal guys

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Old 08-28-2016, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Foosh
I think you handled it just fine.
Seems reasonable to me.
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If you want, answer the question and tell them what you paid. If you don't want to answer then dont.. This is a personal preference ..and in this thread no one is obligated under any circumstances to explain to anyone else WHY they do or don't answer that particular question.

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Old 08-28-2016, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by RedC7AZ
If you want, answer the question and tell them what you paid. If you don't want to answer then dont.. This is a personal preference ..and in this thread no one is obligated under any circumstances to explain to anyone else WHY they do or don't answer that particular question.
Bbbuutt defariatroll said so. We have to say why! What a tool.
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Kinda like people that blur their license plate when they post a pic when they drive around having no clue who is looking at it.
I never understood that
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Old 08-28-2016, 11:27 PM
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Bbbuutt defariatroll said so. We have to say why! What a tool.
Juvenile name calling is always good.

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Originally Posted by Steve_R
Kinda like people that blur their license plate when they post a pic when they drive around having no clue who is looking at it.
Originally Posted by themonk
I never understood that

And I have a non-answer for this too: Why? NOYB
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Originally Posted by Steve_R
Kinda like people that blur their license plate when they post a pic when they drive around having no clue who is looking at it.
That I do understand. Publishing an image on the internet, which can lead anyone on planet Earth, who is clever enough, to your home address for an eternity is quite different than the exposure that comes from just driving around. The level of exposure is magnitudes greater.

It's all about the odds of having your identity compromised.

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