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Old 11-12-2012, 10:06 PM
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Old 11-12-2012, 10:08 PM
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I don't know what to do or expect anymore. I never thought i would be 30 living with my parents?
Just remember,,IT is just a bump in the road,,,,,,,just a setback nothing more!

She still loves, you but the stress on both of you must be serioulsy overwhelming,,,,,,,




I dont know what to say Joe........... (you have my # if you want someone to listen!)

EDIT: 2nd thought,,,,I want to talk to you, suck up your f-ing pride and call. I am just sitting here, wondering if I want to eat, more cake frosting or more of my kids halloween candy.......

(not eating the duck eggs! eeeeeeeeeeeeeH)

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Old 11-12-2012, 10:13 PM
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Dang brother, hang in there.
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Joe,

You have had it pretty rough the past couple of years for sure. Remember happiness does not come from others. It is within you. Most relationships end at some point. You have had others I'm sure. Just try to take care of your health man. There is nothing wrong with your family helping you out when you need it. Get well the other stuff will fall into place. Take care, Don
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WTF......just last week during Sandy you were saying how happy you guys were......I think.

Good luck man.
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wow. that sucks. hang in there bro. she might just be overwhelmed with the stress and cant think straight.give her time and space.
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You don't know my family. Proudest day of my life was turning my back on them and leaving. Bunch of retards that are protective of my younger bro/sis who are total meth addicts who steal everything.

After all this I'm still worried about how marina is going to survive financially

I think I'm done. I've been in relationships that end, this is 10 years with my soul mate. We are a perfect couple and its gone. I have nothing left, serious. I haven't had my health in 10 years! My family is by birth only and I have no friends. I have ZERO. I'm going to be like this the rest of my life I'm sure of it. Only 2 documented cases in the USA have what I'm dealing with medically. I'm going to be a guinea pig the rest of my life. Not how I want to live. I jthink I'm out of here guys. I'm really on the verge of just attaching the opiate patches. I'm done with it all. My body failed me this go around... I just hope the next chance goes better
you are not done,,you just need to regroup and start over......
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I have an empty bedroom in the DFW area you could use for a few weeks. That way you could still get your drugs and she would have time to figure out where she really wants to be.

PM me and I will give you a phone number.

But you have to promise not to comment on my restoration skills or housekeeping abilities.
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Focus on YOU...focus on battling your illness. Instead of falling into despair, use this time to heal - mentally, emotionally, psychologically and physically.

You are WAY too young to throw in the towel.

Wishing you the best.

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Give her a little time to sort out her feelings - this has been hard on both of you. Meanwhile, just concentrate on getting better - even if it is just a little bit day by day.
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Focus on YOU...focus on battling your illness. Instead of falling into despair, use this time to heal - mentally, emotionally, psychologically and physically.

You are WAY too young to throw in the towel.

Wishing you the best.

You're not a quitter. Now is the time to focus on getting better, and nothing else. I hate hearing the pain your in, but try and tough it out man. You never know what tomorrow may bring, but I can promise it won't bring anything if you give up.
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Prayers for you man. Don't do it, if you love your womna. Don't do it. She and everyone around her will live with the guilt for the rest of her life. If she's stuck around you this long she loves you. But, if you're both in your 30's your full adult lives has just begun. Think of her happpiness. Think of the suffering she has gone tnrough watching you suffer. This may sound crazy but I have wives and girlfriends break down and cry in front of me in my pharmacy for the suffering that their SO's are going through. I gurantee she did not make this decision easily or lightly.

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....and be kind to yourself.
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Please hang in there. Please. I cannot imagine how hard this is for you. But once you're gone, that's it. And there are a bunch of folks here who will miss you a lot.

Ps: I've really enjoyed your posts - especially the AR posts.
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Just keep talking it out, man. Don't try to go through this alone.

CFOT may be remote, but it's full of your friends.

Consider your kind words regarding the death of my brother recently.

Hang in their, brother.

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Originally Posted by Texas Bulldog View Post
...I jthink I'm out of here guys. I'm really on the verge of just attaching the opiate patches. I'm done with it all. My body failed me this go around... I just hope the next chance goes better
I always feared what would happen to you if this happened. Joe please pick up the phone and call someone from here, or answer the phone if someone calls you.

You are the strongest **** I know and will get through this. This was my Dad's favorite saying, I have this plaque on my desk, it got me through some dark times when I was facing agoraphobia and considering the same.

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