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If they are the repro grommets, it might be an issue with the plastic gassing out. For a long time there was a gassing issue with the 78-82 armrest which would not allow them to be dyed without flaking.
You might have to lightly scuff them with something like steel wool.. I'm not sure, but doing that may give the paint something to bite too.