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I live on a fairly busy corner. I'm always working on my Vette or my Jimmy in the garage or in the driveway. Lots of people see me all the time and know me as "the guy with the yellow Vette".
Here's the rub. People who have NEVER waved, said hi, stopped in to check out what I was doing, asked if I need any help, etc. will stop and start describing a "problem" they are having with their car and ask if I can fix it. Or they will stop and ask if they can "borrow" my engine hoist, compressor, etc.
This REALLY pisses me off and I'm not very polite with them. Am I wrong?
I have the same situation with boats. I'm polite and just respond with a little humor, "You cant afford me (or cant borrow my tools) til my project is done, and that should be sometime next summer".
Gary
Yeah, I see no need to be rude. But if they wanted to borrow my stuff outta the blue, I'd certainly make it cost prohibitive. Either laugh it off with the "you can't afford my goods/services" joke...
Or agree to let them borrow your stuff.... with a non-refundable cash deposit paid upfront.... that's at least, if not greater than the value of the tool to be loaned.
i used to get that a lot when i was working on my bikes ( I had seven). people thought i was running a shop out of my house. i just tell them i only work on my own stuff and the reason i am always doing it is cause i'm no good. that usually takes care of it.
You might consider fixing a few. I do a healthy word-of-mouth side business fixing mostly small things. People are glad to pay $50 to have a set of brake pads put on.
If I put a used engine in I can charge $400+ and keep the old one. Amazing what people will buy from Ebay.
I never loan tools. You have to be firm, but polite.
Good advice above, you could recommend a good and fair mechanic or shop (if you know one) and tell them that you only know your cars well enough to work on with all the computer things, etc that are on 'em. You can also throw out the insurance liability factor by saying your agent has advised you to buy a big policy or don't work on other people's cars.
I'm always working on my Jimmy in the garage or in the driveway.
Well no wonder nobody talks to you.
Anyway, I don't see a problem in refusing. It surprises me when people don't see the wierdness in asking for help from somebody they've avoided until then.
There is nothing to be gained by being rude. I don't think I would loan tools out to someone you do not know. I would take the opportunity to get to know them at least a little. Heck, there may be someone who shares the same interest as you have.
I'm in the industrial refrigeration busness and people in my neighborhood see my gauges hanging in the back of my van and come over (even though I've never spoke to them before) and ask if I can look at their A/C, I allways say sure I'm 0 for 10 on them though I don't work on them for a living I do mostly petrochemical work, Anhydrous Ammonia systems and the like. That allways scares them off. If that doesn't work I'll through in I charge $135.00/hr + parts that stops them in thier tracks.
I live on a fairly busy corner. I'm always working on my Vette or my Jimmy in the garage or in the driveway. Lots of people see me all the time and know me as "the guy with the yellow Vette".
Here's the rub. People who have NEVER waved, said hi, stopped in to check out what I was doing, asked if I need any help, etc. will stop and start describing a "problem" they are having with their car and ask if I can fix it. Or they will stop and ask if they can "borrow" my engine hoist, compressor, etc.
This REALLY pisses me off and I'm not very polite with them. Am I wrong?
I also live on a corner that everyone in the neighborhood has to pass to enter the subdivision. There are a few Vette guys here that we share parts and tools, infact, I have one of their engine stands in my garage right now, and another guy has a couple of my airtools. I even loaned my differential to a guy that has a 67 Vette so he could take his girlfriend for a drive his Vette one day. He brought it back the next week, and it was exact same shape as when he took it.
But for everyone else, if I only know them by sight, I say they can borrow something as long as they put a value deposit on it. If I have never seen them before, I don't let them borrow anything. I just say, "...I am sorry, I don't loan tools."
To an Orgononian, the word "Borrow" means give, and I learned long a go not to give away my tools. The last time someone ask if I worked on a car for money I just busted up lauphing...couldn't stop, they eventually walked, I'm realy rude, aint I.....ROFLMFAO
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You think that is being rude? You COULD have been more polite and PC about it but hell you don;t know these people from christ and they don't know you, it takes some kind of ballz to be walking up to a stranger and asking them to borrow crap.