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If it makes you feel any better your ICM connector wiring colors look right to me. A=pnk/blk, B=wht, C=blk, D=wht. The FSM sequence shown on the picture has weird sequencing of A,B,C,D, just because I think it's easier for them to show the layout of the circuits on the picture, but your connector does have the colors/layout indicated on the FSM chart.