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Old Apr 6, 2022 | 09:31 AM
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Sold an electrical part to a guy. He said his mechanic told him it was broken and wants to return it. Normally “no” for electrical, but I agreed. Five months go buy and no return, no communication and suddenly the part shows up on my doorstep. Do you refund, tell him to pound sand, or somewhere in between?
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 09:36 AM
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I'll play the role. Don't go to his level, be the better man. Something unfortunate could have prevailed at his end. Refund and be done! Dennis
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 09:46 AM
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Send him the refund in five months
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 09:47 AM
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Did you open the return box/package?

Hopefully he didn't send you 'his' part that he was trying to fix, with the one he bought from you...
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Uncle Pasko 73
Send him the refund in five months
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 10:04 AM
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I'm sure your part is broken now. Better check it. No refund for broken electrical parts.
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Uncle Pasko 73
Send him the refund in five months
Clearly the correct answer - to the matching number of days from him informing you of the part not working until it showed up.
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 10:25 AM
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I assume you can tell that it was sent recently and not simply lost in the mail for five months. If it were the latter, it's not his fault. I'd assume if it were the latter he would have been bugging you for his refund.

So, I'd contact him and ask him why he delayed sending the return.
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Old Apr 6, 2022 | 10:37 AM
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Tell him the check is the mail?
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 10:44 AM
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If you can confirm the part works and looks undamaged, I'd refund the money like you said you would and move on.
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 11:06 AM
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I would check if he just recently shipped it, or if it did get lost in the mail. the label on the box is printed the day its mailed, so pretty easy to confirm. if it got lost in the mail, thats not his fault and I would refund.

if he just shipped it after this long, I would be very hesitant and I would want to test it myself. if its good, refund and its done. if it was bad. im not sure since he had 5 months to do his own testing and possibly break it. that would be the tough call
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 04:33 PM
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That guy is me. I had to buy two Multi Function Switches as a result. Pop sent me one that was non-functional from the start. I had to pay Mayhem Motorsports twice for installation. Once for the Broken switch and again for the Working Switch.

If Pop would have sent me a switch that worked from the start, we would not be having this conversation.
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Originally Posted by Patrick03
If you can confirm the part works and looks undamaged, I'd refund the money like you said you would and move on.
The Part NEVER worked. Mayhem Motorsports in NC can 100 percent confirm this. I was sent a broken and non-functional Multi-Function Switch. Mayhem Motorsports can verify all of this. I just want a refund and call it even. I sent the Switch back EXACTLY as was sold to me.
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by 65hihp
I'm sure your part is broken now. Better check it. No refund for broken electrical parts.
I find it ridiculous that I bought a broken part from the start.

I also have an email saying that a refund would be accepted...
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Easy Rhino
Clearly the correct answer - to the matching number of days from him informing you of the part not working until it showed up.
That would fine, but what exactly would that prove or convey?

Pretty ridiculous that this thread even exists considering we are both members here.

I am also the one who simply bought a broken part. Why sell a broken part???
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Originally Posted by Duck916
I assume you can tell that it was sent recently and not simply lost in the mail for five months. If it were the latter, it's not his fault. I'd assume if it were the latter he would have been bugging you for his refund.

So, I'd contact him and ask him why he delayed sending the return.
I really did not want to get into personal reasons but I will if that is what it takes.
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Naturally Vain
I really did not want to get into personal reasons but I will if that is what it takes.
No! Please!
I'll be arguing with my Wife enough tonight......I'm Good!

Where the hell is Dear Abby when you need her??????

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Old Apr 6, 2022 | 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by pop23235
Sold an electrical part to a guy. He said his mechanic told him it was broken and wants to return it. Normally “no” for electrical, but I agreed. Five months go buy and no return, no communication and suddenly the part shows up on my doorstep. Do you refund, tell him to pound sand, or somewhere in between?
I would do what is right. But that is just me...
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So why did you delay shipping it back for 4 plus months? I didn't see the reason.
Old Apr 6, 2022 | 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Naturally Vain
I would do what is right. But that is just me...
Thanks for dropping by and introducing yourself much better than I ever could.
You just missed a point or two: you knew when you purchased that it was used, and the car’s symptoms were explained to you and that a new switch was installed with no benefit. Therefore the part MAY be ok, or may not, but no returns. You took a chance as you could not find another.
Once your mechanic told you it was faulty, the conversation was as you show. I relented and offered to refund. I don’t ever want to stick someone. I just think you should take some responsibility for your role. I think folks here see the picture. Some folks are just naturally vain.



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